It is, as you say, very upsetting. However, some years ago I visited a special needs school on their sports day. The children were an inspiration. The wheelchair-bound kids and those with physical disabilities were determined to do their best at archery and ball games - and a great job of it they made, as well! It was when they proudly went up to collect their prizes that I started to cry. Even with the great disabilities which many of them had, their strength anfd pride made me feel very humble.