DOH!! is the term 'ex' meant to mean ex husbands then? I didn;t realise, i must have taken it to mean ex-boyfriend then, as I am pretty sure i only married once, and i don;t come on here for other people to like me, i come on here because I enjoy answering questions that i know the answer to, if you have issues with me it is because i disliked your insulting initial post way beack a few months ago when you joined and were immediately abusive to myself and others, but unlike you, when i leave my laptop and this site i do not think about the aliases and annonymous members of ab, i get involved in the real world, you however are unable to distinguish reality from cyber land, hence you dwell on the unreality of a website.