why do people stray fronm their partners?

[blu3wave]

Following on from my last thread, the fat girl at work whose bf was flirting with me, still does and i'm not sure if the oaf of a gf even notices!?
I was wondering why he was straying from his gf if he's so in lurvve with the cow, shouldnt he try and sort himself out if he's serious about hr and plans on being with her long term?
I admit- like last time- she's fugly ugly and i assumed she was a lesbian before she starting going out with this guy..... but now that he's picked her (did he owe her a favour), shouldnt he stick to her? Or dump her and find another woman if hes so frustrated ?

[206]

How fatuous. Shouldn't you be doing your homework?

[China Doll]

People stray from their partners for a number of reasons.

Some people are naturally flirtatious so even if they're with someone they might still flirt with others. Doesn't mean that they'll do anything about it. Perhaps this lad is like that.

[slave-plater]

boredom amongst other things, why people stray from thier partners .......

[Beads]

Why are you so obsessed with them?

[Goodsoulette]

Flirting doesn't equal cheating.

Maybe if he flirts with you, he is just trying to real you in so that you eventually try to take him up on it and he can say no love. Proving you to be the b1tch you really are.

I reckon anyone that comes with in blinking distance of attempting to flirt with you is either doing it to win some money or just to make you look like a tw@t, although you probably do a good enough job of that yourself.

[Dassie]

It's known as the thrill of the chase..........ego boosting... and when the target has been achieved then the excitement falls away.

[Ice-Maiden]

Sounds to me as if he's just flirting in a friendly manner - don't a lot of people? I bet he goes back to that "ugly fat oaf" as you so eloquently put it, though. She's probably an extremely nice person underneath. Have you wondered if he might just be teasing you because he thinks you look as though you might be "up for it"?

[hussy]

take it you don"t like her then ice-maiden!!!!!!

[Ice-Maiden]

I could well do - I've never met her.

[blu3wave]

No, he's a desperate old fagg0t so he's not teasing me etc ... coz i dont look like the easy type, much like his fat girl, who i'm sure would do anything with anyone coz she hasnt got much attention in life.
Anyway, i wish the sleazy old man and his fat sh1tbag all the best, coz its not really my prob, i just felt sorry for the firl and wondered why he was always wandering from her (no surprise really). I get loads of attentin from better looknig, youger men so it doesnt really bother me if there's another old man waiting in line....

[hussy]

sorry ice-maiden x i"m sure you've had the blame before even when its not you!! i know i have. x x