the biggest argument you could imagine

[chesnuts]

2nite i have had the argument from hell with my husband u can not believe, his mam lives with us as does his 17 year old son and my 2 dogs, i feel utterly shattered and worn out, i am scared 4 my dogs and am hospital 2moro to have 2 biopsies on my face for a mark that cud b skin cancer i feel so unhappy i dont know wot to do or where to turn dusnt life suck. and to those of you who hate text talk i am sorry but tonight i am not bothered i just want some friendly answers not putting me down because i have said "cos" or txt talke d but becos y the heck shud us women who take on our fellas family have to be the bad un and yep i knew wot i was getting myself in for but i thought if i at least stuck up 4 his mam wen he calls her a reatd (She has had a stroke) and his son becos he loves him, wot am i doing i have my own problems anyone who remembers me knows i already have two broken legs apparently they r talking the casts off in 2 weeks time but i am getting grief off work too, hell of a life eh?
Please go easy on me 2nite i have *** on here looking for friendship and a nice word not horribleness, thanks

chesnuts Mon 15/10/07

[VillageVicar]

Chesnuts: This sounds to be an extremely distressing time for you.. Might it be helpful if you speak with someone tonight? You may call toll-free the Samaritans on 08457 90 90 90.

I was trying to think of something that might make you smile. However, my humour is the reason I'm here and not at Ceasar's Palace!

But I thought the Parable of the Mousetrap might offer you some thought:

http://anglicans.blogspot.com/2006/06/parable- of-mouse-trap.html

You are in my thoughts and prayers

Fr. Bill

[chesnuts]

god bless you, thanx

[society]

Hi Chestnut,

I feel for you and imagine how hurt you must be. You are strong and brave, and everything will work out in your favour in the end. Trying times like these makes us stronger. Just continue to do what is right, good for you for sticking up for your mother-in-law. God will give you strength and courage to overcome your obstacles and these problems. Stay well xx

[lindapinda]

Hi Chesnuts..there's a couple more replies for you in b&s.If you're still about?

[chesnuts]

society

she askd 4 me ll of the time,dhe tel the care staff in the home where she goes twice a week if she cud of picked a betta daughter she wud hav picked me. my hubbie is adopted, she now looks upon me as her only help. my hubbie shouts cos she cant walk kwik enuf she cant eat kwik enuf he calls her fat, this lady must wish and she has sed she only wants me with her. for gods sake iam her daughtinlaw and she asks for me all of the time, y? i wud rather be in a home than live here. she holds me day and nite and begs for help, he has just woken up accused me of talking to a boyfriend i am talking to the anserbank wot am is supposed to do

[chesnuts]

so y does SOCIETY want to hurt me

[chesnuts]

y wen i talk does it put society beneath my name and y r they puttin me down

[chesnuts]

legend why put me own with yr mate i do not understand and society

|put this postonhere body and soula nd on animals and nature. I apolofise if the truth hurts of i u dont believe me i can show u my heart and no more if u have nothing good to say please i beg u say nothing at all, or justify a man threatening a woman and her dogs and her mother in alw and her stepson if u can do that ok i will listen and do everything in my power to prove u wron i can use photobucket 4 my legs get my motherin law to speak 4 hersef, but most of all i came on here tonight sad and desperate not looking for nastiness and u ok u want me to prove my stoey then ask and i will scan all hospital documents and prove everything i am shocked i place an abb on body and soul 4 obvious reasons and animals be os i am afraid for my dogs, please prove me wrong make me out to be a liar and wen i prove u wrong will u ever say sorry 4 taking away the only chance of friendship that i have

[chesnuts]

tomorrow i will prove my storey andthen give up on the anserbnk altogether

[chesnuts]

i put the question on both nimals and body and soul becos affected both y do legend and souless want to hurt me,,,, r yr lives so perfect, if not then w use me as a scapegoat

[dmsymr]

Chestnuts, If your still on answerbank (I hope you are as were not all nasty!) How did the biopsy go? You seemed very distressed monday night, I hope your felling a little better in yourself today. Please try to be strong, its not easy to deal with so many issues when you got your own problems to deal with. Please remember their are lots of people that are thinking of you. xx