Lonely

[gleaveyweave]

Hi all, I am feeling a bit sorry for myself tonight and am all alone (well kids are in bed) and just need to have a bit of a heart-pouring out session - hope that's ok. Four weeks ago, I kicked my husband out as I found out he'd been having an affair for four years (we've only been married that long and our youngest child is three) and has basically been living a double life for those four years. Some of you may remember that a couple of years ago, I posted about his "suspicious behaviour" - turns out that I had good reason to be concerned! To make matters worse, he wasn't happy with the one woman, decided a couple of months ago to have a bit with her mate too, who happens to be a fellow mum at school! Sorry to go on, but you lot can be so supportive and I am feeling rather lonely tonight xx

[dolly pond]

i bet though, that u still love him dont u? its really hard to stop loving someone! and the kids still will want to see their dad so u have to be a super woman to hold ya head high and show him u`ve moved on , maybe get a new lipstick and a new top, so he thinks u r on the pull!!!! titter titter

[DONNA1458]

I find when i am in a bad time in my life like this i sit down put the hurt and anger to the back of my mind and think about my life in five years time looking back at the time your at now and how you would deal with it how better/stronger and possitive you are and then start living your life that way better for it. xx

[leelapops]

gleaveyweave, I am so sorry to hear that your soon-to-be-ex husband did this to you. I can only echo everyone else's sentiments-you are just a million of him, and you should be so proud. It is hard now, but as Donna says, just think how you'll look back in 5 years and realise what a t*sser he is, and how the other women are welcome to him, pathetic loser that he is.

I know what you are going through, although I don't have kids so at least the pain was only my own. Be strong, petal. Much love.

[gleaveyweave]

Thank you to all who posted later last night/today xx
I really appreciate the support, you're all fab x

[bigmamma]

Hello sweatheart , hope you are feeling less down tonight , I have been wondering how you are and will be thinking of you and hoping the best for you . :-) xxx

[gleaveyweave]

Hi bigmamma, just picked up your post and wanted to say thank you again x not feeling so bad today, i'm up and down all the time but bless you for thinking of me xx hope you are well x