Boyfriend Vs Old friend

[Mystery_90]

I've been in a relationship for nearly 3 years now, its all happy and fine but recently i've been speaking to an old friend, male friend, and ive started to get feelings for him, and i have no clue what to do. I feel bad because of my 3 year boyfriend. And to top it all off the lad i have feelings for has jst gotten a girlfriend. i don't know whether to tell him how i feel? before its too late, i'm nearly 18 and i feel seperate from all my friends (most of them are single) and i just want to see other people before settling down. What should i do?

[MAD BUTCHER]

grow up

[gleaveyweave]

Not very helpful guys!!
If you want to see other people before settling down, then you should end the relationship with your boyfriend whether you have feelings for someone else or not, after all, if you are not ready to settle, you will have to at some point wont you?
As for your old friend, sometimes a "comfort" factor can feel like stronger feelings, a sort of familiarity that goes with chatting to someone you were once close to. That said, if you really think you have feelings for him then tell him and see if he feels the same, but don't string your boyfriend along in the meantime, he deserves better.

[~max~]

3 year boyfriend and you're only 17? No wonder you're getting itchy feet....If you are attracted to someone else, even if it won't lead to anything serious, it probably means that your current relationship is not as satisfying as it was. You are very young, you need to live up and have new experiences, travel, study, make new friends! Don't burden yourself with the worries of a serious relationship at your age!

[Panic Button]

It seems confusing at the moment, but in a few years you will look back and laugh.