Part 2
I�m sure many of us have seen the shows on telly where 15 and 16 year old teens run off to Thailand or the states, with the permission of mummy and daddy, to have their �augmentations.� During the process, the mother is talking on camera, saying how much it will help her daughter�s self-esteem. Excuse me, but if self-esteem is gained from a scalpel and some silicon bags, then I�d suggest the poor child�s life is so shallow and banal that the mother and father should be charged with child abuse!
Far too many relationships collapse because of the fa�ades that are created during the courting process. They cease to become sustainable when all of the mechanisms of living as a couple kick in. If the man�s interest in you is centred around your bust, you may end up becoming yet another victim of a collapsed relationship.
Trends do change. Less than a century ago, women were mummifying themselves in order to appear flat-chested. I should imagine trends will reverse back in time.
But in the meantime, if you�re young, focus more on what�s above your chest. The guys who are �keepers� are the ones who first find their fascination there!
Fr Bill