Life's soooo stressful!

[Roughquest]

Hello All,
Help, what is a girl to do? Mr Paramedic has been in touch - not sure what to do - I feel so torn !

[legend758duo]

i thought you were loved up goin on holiday etc etc


what are you on about now roughie ?'

[China Doll]

Eh?

[Pippa68]

Who is Mr Paramedic?

I think I missed summat.

[spottychops]

perhaps he can help me, i need a doc to knock me out for a year or two

[cazzz1975]

spill the beans rq....

[caz247]

is he not the ex boyfriend?????????

[Roughquest]

Well - yes have been sort of loved up - but there have been many problems which i have mentioned with my current partner and his 'behaviour' toward me, very controlling. Now Mr P has been in touch again, some feelings are flooding back for him, am not 100% happy with my love life anyhow, which is being worked on by both parties involved. But am feeling very torn where emotions are concerned.....i was very 'cut up' when Mr P got abducted by aliens earlier this year.....i never envisaged hearing from him again....now this....im scared and excited at the prospect to be honest.

[tiggerblue10]

Eh?

Your post and subsequent answer have really confused me. And I don't think I'm the only one that is confused.

[Shirl]

I was a bit confused to tiggerblue.

But think Roughquest is in a relationship, though not happy with things in bedroom dept, so both working on it, but in meantime the ex has appeared. And now she is confused.

I wish I had the same problem!

[China Doll]

It's simple really. If you love and want to be with the guy your boyfriend cut all contact with the ex and work on that relationship and stop thinking the grass is greener elsewhere.

If you don't want to make a go of it, split up, give yourself a bit of time to recover , telll that to the ex and see if he waits around for you to get your head together. (Not a bet I'd take but hey ho).