As a result of my cemetery walks I know that I will live to be 93. My laces came undone and while looking for somewhere to do them up I said to myself, you will live to be the age of the person on the next gravestone. I had to stretch the meaning of 'next' a few times, but I am content with the final decision, and I always now adjust my laces at the same gravestone. God will take note (which he didn't in the case of Basildon)
growing up i used to play in the grave yard every day. i still like to go for walks in there and talk to the spirits. it one of the most gratifying feeling ever.