Hi Hotfemail :)
I used to work for a charity based care org. called Crossroads. We also worked alongside Macmillan.
I looked after very unwell kids and babies aswell as adults with various diseases and cancers.
Not all of them were palliative, but by god it was a wonderful job.
I had NO qualifications at all to work in this, I went to an interview and one of the questions was...
If one of you clients loses bladder control for the first time. What would be your reaction?
My answer got me the job.
My first client? an M.S patient whom was bedridden. This was a 2 careworker job as it required harnesses, slip sheets, bedbaths and cleaning up excretia. Emptying the catheter bag and generally getting them out of bed.
One of my favourite clients ever!!! but if I think about all of them that I cared for? they were all my favourites lol!!!
I lost one who had cancer of the face. He had no real face left. A hole where they had removed his nose and top part of the lips... that needed packing and cleaning.
I remeber being told of his death and I said to my boss I would go home and take a minute if that was alright. I cried. I still have fond memories of him.
I could write a thousand of these memories.
It is an incredible job and you are trained on the job at NVQ Level.
See if you have a Crossroads Caring For Carers in your area.
Good Luck.
B.