hi bongerman i wouldn't like to say whether your wife is pregnant or not. but i can say i am 30 wks pregnant with my second child and didn't have a period when concieve with my first but this time i had one "normal" period then one a month later which was very light, as i was feeling rubbish i decided to do a test and it was postitve. then when i went for my first scan i was further on then i first thought. so i would just say do a test. and my fingers are crossed for you. keep us posted.