THECORBYLOON: Your question is to some extent founded on a misapprehension. I don't think it is "wrong" to ask for help, nor do I have any particular problem with the kind of spoilers given in this thread or typically seen on this site. If you want to know what I *do* think, you could do a search for Listener 3952 on this site.
I suspect you have been misled by QM's habit of lumping together all Listener fans as "Listenerites" and then attributing to us, en bloc, a set of views and values that don't seem to fit any individual that I've come across. "We" are actually a fairly a diverse group; see
http://crosswordcentre.barcombe.net/archive/li st.php?page=2
to get an idea of the range of opinions of the Listener crowd.
But to come back to your question, I think my answer would tend to be "no". For a start (though it may not be a major point) I can't remember any requests to stop *asking* questions, merely to stop *answering* them.
More to the point, simply telling people to stop doing things very rarely works; it is far more likely to put people's backs up.
Even worse is to try to stop people voicing their views by threatening them. But that is where we came in, and where I think I shall bow out.