I'm sorry if i have upset you with my name, but to give details:
I'm invisable due to fear of being found by an abusvie ex partner who will go to any length to try and find me. I've got myself and children away after ten long long years.
Was hoping to use this site for some much needed future advice, I fear its going to be a hard road ahead and can't risk being found!
just post away - not everybody feels like these people
i have met some really nice, chatty LIGHTHEARTED kind people on here and if that Is what you are, so will you
I would change your name to something else and start afresh
no one need know you got off to a bad start
don't be put off and avoid chatterbank - be more specific with your questions if you don't like the insults. you only have to read some of the postings to find that chatterbank is one huge insult. Most tend to avoid it like the plague.
maybe you are right there baileybird, but it must have been a shock to invisible to read that, and i don't think she is the type to get worked up unnecessarily, this site used to suffer from that sort of problem a few years ago, i would hate to see it all flare up again.
I second that Dot,i`ve had abuse on this site and nearly left,luckily i didnt and have made some good friends.I hope Invisible does the right thing and ignores this idiot.
It really is a coincidence and my circumstances are true. i never meant to hurt anyone or bring up old wounds for anybody.
I will not post anymore as i think enough hurtful things have been said. I joined and typed in a question without even understanding the site, to be honest. Another of my big mistakes
MsInvisable , having read your 2 threads , the only thing I have gleamed from them is that you have chosen the wrong name on here as we all know and like Invisible , who is part of our AB family . I do not know you yet but perhaps it would be better for you to come back with a unique different username .
Invisible honey , please reconsider , we don't want you to leave , though can see why you are upset. :-) xx