love/hate

[unrulyjulie]

I just saw this on facebook, can you answer it?
If you can, can you give me your reasons to help me make my mind up please
thanks

would you rather love someone who hates you OR hate someone who loves you?

[rugeleyboy]

love someone who hates me!! defo.

why......... i cant imagine hating anybody that loves me in a true way?

[4GS]

There is a fine line between love and hate Jules, so who knows?

[unrulyjulie]

i think it would awful to be in love with someone who you know hates you, very painful but then again, it cant be nice hating someone who loves you, but it would be easier to get on with your life with the latter scenario.

[sausagechips]

rather hate someone who loves me.....loving someone you cant be with or cant have is the worst feeling in the world! i know i'm been selfish but you dont hate people for no reason

[4GS]

Hate is a negative emotion, negative because when you think of that person/thing that causes the hate, your body will release things called endorphins (sp)? which gives us the 'fight or flight' reaction which puts unnecessary stress on your heart etc

[unrulyjulie]

i agree with sausage, i think that would be my option.
bloody heck 4GS, bit deep for me lol just answer the question!lol ;-)

[4GS]

Come here Jules and feel the love ;-))

[legend002]

I dont think im capable of either of those.Doesnt seem like much of a choice really.




H T H ?

[unrulyjulie]

i'm feeling it 4GS! :-)
no, it isnt much of a choice is it leggie which is why i asked for views on it !

[legend002]

In fact there is no choice jules.Neither is better.So id gladly decline the choice that is no choice at all.Sounds like hurt or be hurt.Not exactly how id like to live my life.Perhaps im not that cal�lous as some folk.Perhaps im not callous enough.But i fee� its a no win question.Therefore id decline.



D T H ?

[unrulyjulie]

Of course there is no choice really, well Hobsons choice, mind you, what if the person who loved you was a brutal horrid person,unworthy of your love? then the choice is easy!
what if the person you loved is unobtainable or very bad for you,? someone who you know is wrong but you cant help loving?
So there are all different scenarios where there is a choice i guess. but that is way deeper than i wanted to think about it !
Nothing is as black and white as it first seems is it?
Bit of fun really, thats all.

[legend002]

if the person was brutal would i hate them?or pity them ?why hate them?thats my point .seems a straightforward yes or no answer but if you actually think about it .well does hating a bad person make you better than them ?or as bad as them?if you are a good person and can see this persons faults and their inability to do anything to change , does hating them make you better ?not in my opinion.



h t h ?

[jojojojoanne]

are the two options...... the same?
would it not be a better situation to be free to love rather than being free to hate?

[weeal]

ooh I would have neither if possible - both horrible situations but youre right, the latter possibly easier to cope with although 'hate' is a horrible emotion