Your opinions needed please

[Claire-L]

I think my man is gay. He has more beauty products than I do, he has a manicure every week whether he needs one or not, he constantly smells of perfume, he wears CK one and so he tells me it is his aftershave, he has a facial once a fortnight, he listens to soft jazz music and is always out with his work colleagues at some kind of gentlemens club that is called the 'basement'.

He is very effiminate, and I want some advice as we are getting married and I need to know if I have to go back to my lover

[redcrx]

do you look like a bloke? maybe youre a middle ground.

[~max~]

1/ this a joke, and yes, go to your lover, but keep your fiance for fashion advice, and make up tips.

2/ It's for real, and he sounds quite effeminate, but then if you live in "trendy" London or other big city, you'll find that a lot of men act the same way. Unless he's a truck driver or crane operator, he can fit those things into his lifestyle no problem.
Question though..lover??? lol Careful he doesn't steal him!

[figure]

Why don't you ask him? Hopefully you'll get an honest answer, and the best one

[dot.hawkes]

mmmm, is your lover willing to take you back after you have been with your fiance?

[raysparx1]

Well , are you still having sex? if yes the worst thing it can be he is Bi-Sexual, why don't you ask him outright. or go back to your lover, please don't say you are lesbian, cos I will be totally confused then.

[redcrx]

a quick search will give you an idea if its a joke or not :)

[~max~]

How do you do a search on here now Redcrx? Nothing came up....

[redcrx]

its weird, you need to search each topi i think, try body and soul and also parenting. ive seen her there before

[weeal]

I googled it and previous comments have been ehm questionable lol

[Claire-L]

I do not live in trendy London its East Midlands and there is a lot of it about. My lover would definitely take me back, in fact I have been seeing him on and off for the last 3 years. I am beautiful. I look like a filmstar. Hard to believe I know however it is the Gods Honest Truth.

[cazzz1975]

If you need to have a lover then I dont expect the marriage to last.

assuming its not a boyfriend you made up about half an hour ago...

[~max~]

Ok, I guess I'm too naive for this site....*sigh*

[raysparx1]

No point marrying your boyfriend then is there, carry on as you are, who would want to marry a trollop like you anyway?

Hope this helps.

[cazzz1975]

post a picture of yourself claire, not a random google search for a "beautiful girl"

[weeal]

maybe he is having a fling with your imaginery 'nanny' who brings up your imaginery children, have you checked your 'basement' lol

[raysparx1]

Maybe he is pulling his pudden into the custard bowl?