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Dilemma - he thinks i fancy him. Advice please
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I've have been having friendly banter, (ok and a bit of a flirt but nothing too outrageous) with a guy i come into contact with (often) through work. We live in the same town and yesterday he asked me if we could meet up sometime for coffee.
I said "sure" but made it clear that he has a girlfriend and i have husband that it would be for a friendly chat - nothing else...
Now I've gotten a FULL ON (wont give the details) FLIRTY text message and it's worrying me.
He has got the wrong idea.
I now don't think it a good idea to meet for coffee but how do i tell him AND still manage to keep the professional relationship above board. Also I know that he suffers from anxiety / depression too and so i don' wanna hurt his feelings.
Ooeerrrrr... advice much appraeciated
I said "sure" but made it clear that he has a girlfriend and i have husband that it would be for a friendly chat - nothing else...
Now I've gotten a FULL ON (wont give the details) FLIRTY text message and it's worrying me.
He has got the wrong idea.
I now don't think it a good idea to meet for coffee but how do i tell him AND still manage to keep the professional relationship above board. Also I know that he suffers from anxiety / depression too and so i don' wanna hurt his feelings.
Ooeerrrrr... advice much appraeciated
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and THANKS ALOT to all who helped with my dilemma yesterday).....appreciate it.
I spoke to he person (he rang me) over phone today. He came out and said that hoped he wasn't out of line by what he'd said etc...and I told him i was a bit "freaked" out...had i given him the wrong idea etc?
we had quite a long talk over the phone . Told him it would be a better idea if we met for coffee WITH our partners. He said yup thats a good idea and at least we both know where we stand etc...PHEW!!!
Thankyou all for listening to me ramble last night.
and THANKS ALOT to all who helped with my dilemma yesterday).....appreciate it.
I spoke to he person (he rang me) over phone today. He came out and said that hoped he wasn't out of line by what he'd said etc...and I told him i was a bit "freaked" out...had i given him the wrong idea etc?
we had quite a long talk over the phone . Told him it would be a better idea if we met for coffee WITH our partners. He said yup thats a good idea and at least we both know where we stand etc...PHEW!!!
Thankyou all for listening to me ramble last night.
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