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[dave1969]

Ive met what seems to be a lovely female.. Anyway she has told me why her marriage broke down she had an affair, she was married for 15 years and has two young children.. She has also admitted she slept with quite a lot of men since the marriage broke down some 2 years ago.. Why is she telling me ? Is she being open and honest or trying to put me off..? I have since found out she has been with one of my mates while she was married and another when they split. Am i wasting my time or could it work.. We all have a past and the past is the past put is this past a little to much ??????

[styley]

If you're like this when you're not even with her, what will you be like in a few months. You sound like it'd not work for ya, sorry.

[sleepyj]

maybe she sells her body to pay for the dress .. she will be on the ..jeremy kyle show ...

[perigra]

whatever you do don't get too attatched.
give her a miss if i were you.

[dave1969]

I know that Julie
I do feel deep down she is incredibly insecure or is it she craves attention. She dresses like its a fashion show she looks stunning or is it LOOK at me..
I'm lost part of me says call it a day before you get further involved..

[dave1969]

I feel i should walk away now even though she works she does seem to spend money like there's no tomorrow..
Unless she's on the game as well.. i know you get support now a days..Her job pays around �20 k but with a brand new car and for ever spending on things and her own house the money don't add up.. She says her ex doesn't pay out but she slipped up the other week. He gives her cash and pays certain bills..

[weeal]

dave - reach for the light

get out of it my friend, youve just resoved your own issue

[EngTeach]

Dave,

When people show you who they are....believe them.

[dave1969]

Thanks weeal i know i should and probably will after tonight ..
I think I'm looking at the outside package with her stunning looks and body everything else seems to be pushed aside..Yes she looks good but i don't know the inside of her...................

[weeal]

its a real shame tho Dave, you were only being hopeful but most of us think its a no-hoper
Chin up tho, you may be getting off lightly

[dave1969]

I spoke to my family the other week and they told me to stay clear they do know this female and were a little shocked as well..
I always seem to get blinded by things so do have a reality check every now and then..
Yes i was being hopeful and hoping it might work weeal but reading all the posts its dead before it gets off..
And I'm saving myself years of hell and lies
Thanks all

[weeal]

best of luck to you dave

[~max~]

Aw bless hun! she does seem a show off, after reading the rest of your posts. She doesn't seem insecure, or she wouldn't brag so much if she was. You seem like a decent guy who gives actual thought to his relationships, so I'd say stay clear. You WILL find someone who deserves who, and whom you deserve in return. xxx

[weeal]

pity Im too old for him lol

[dave1969]

Your right ~max~ reading back myself has made me think about it too..
I'm a sucker for looks but looks are not everything
Thanks you for time

[dave1969]

ha ha weeal
I think i will stay on my own for a while i never go looking now a days.. I go out for a laugh if i meet some one then its a bonus if i don't then it don't matter.
Even though everything Ive written and i know what i have to do for some reason this person holds a special place in my heart.. But I'm going to call it a day because my head says its not going to work ....
So I'm off to my pit now thank you for your advice x

[dave1969]

Just an update ive called it a day with this female i think i done the best ..
Thanks all