30th Birthday Blowout - Am i out of order?

[Hudskov]

Okey dokey, my mate blew me out on my 30th birthday in London for no good reason in November. He was in London anyway so not much effort to be made to meet me for a drink. I was gonna go down this weekend for his 30th in Brighton but cant as i have just found i have to pay out a lot of money next month for certain things. He now wont answer my phonecalls! What a T**T!! Surely i'm not that out of order considering i do have a valid reason??

[MiniN]

i didn't think men were that precious!! I'm always hearing how men can go a year without seeing a mate then meet up and nothings changed.

BTW he does sound like a bit of T**T.

[theonlyone]

Not much of a mate if he won't let you explain
as to why you can't go ....I think paying bills
is more important than partying ...

[CAJ1]

I didn't know men were like that either lol! If my friend phoned me and said they couldn't make it naturally I would be disappointed but I wouldn't ignore them! Leave him to stew for a while until he can see he's being stupid and then see what happens!

[Hudskov]

Good advice, i think i will let him stew. Some mate eh??

[CAJ1]

Yeah, if he was a real mate he would have understood. Never worry, things have a way of sorting themselves out