They regularly go to BDSM clubs where you meet these people. Which I would really like to go to, just to see what they're like of course, but am too scared unless I had a boyf to go with!
It may be time to retreat to PM's ladies since the blushes are quite likely to set in at any moment!
Max - My limited understanding is that there are levels of S&M and that fetishes are often combined in there too. One mans perversion adn all that... It really does depend. I'd probably be able to say more but public decency requires I don't, plus I really haven't been reading up on it all of late!
Yeah that's what put me off too Max! Funnily enough I had the girls over tonight and one was saying how a workmate of hers likes the whole gimp mask, ball in mouth plus handcuffs behind back getup.
How to look like an idiot, lesson 1: come back from the toilets, and try to scare your cat by jumping next to her, only for her to not only NOT flinch, but also look at you with eyes that say "I pity you, really".