Ok been told i am better posting in here!

[Macsilk]

feeling pretty low bout my blokes actions tonight.. he been drinking all pm and ruined our plans tonight......... am i v selfish?

[Lonnie]

Hi Macsilk,
No, your not being selfish, if you'd made plans, you were obviusly looking forward to it, but you say 'our' plans, so one has to ask if he did that on purpose, and was there an underlying reason for it?.

[Velvetee]

Does he have a drink problem Macsilk?

[stevie1time]

Time for change hun..Cos unless theres a massive shock to his system..He'l carry on...sorry but true....

[foodluva]

Not selfish Macsilk. I used to be with someone similar and I stayed so long that my mental health was affected. Best thing I did was get rid!!!!!! If it's a one off then maybe you can forgive but if this isn't unusual then you know what to do.....

Good luck!

[Scarlett]

What a selfish a r s e. My advice is that you go out with one of your nice female friends and leave him at home to get a hangover!

[ilsonchick]

no not at all!!!!! me and my best friend have to put up with this every weekend. Our bfs go out and leave us to it when weve made plans with them then they come back vomit and pee everywere and the next day there all sorry this and that its all about comprimisation. You are not selfish at all!!!