If I had been around 2000 years ago, I would have liked to have sat down and talked to Mary about her son. I would have liked to have her opinion on what he was like to her. But Mary is dead and gone and she never wrote any books on what Jesus was like to her and so I'm sorry but what she thought about him is lost. Trying to talk to her now smacks of "spiritualism" to me, just as trying to talk to any dead person is a bit spooky. God's messengers are just people who lived on this earth and heard from God himself, and wrote about it, or talked about it. You can read of their accounts of that and maybe take on board some of what they said, but you can't pray to them or talk to them because they are dead and gone. God does not need a medium to talk to us. There are lots of accounts of people who have heard the voice of God directly. God, like modern teachers, uses all kinds of methods of getting the same message across and it's not which method he uses that is the point, it is the message. That's my little thought on the matter.