boys and school

[Superstar22]

hi, i need some help because I don;t know wether i should break up with my boyfriend because my grades sre lowering. And boys at school won't leave me alon. They like to touch me and violate me even when i say stop. What should i do?
Superstar22

[liljoolz]

you need to tell some one, no one with-out your permission should be touching you!!! go to a parent or teacher now!!

As for you and your boyfriend, speak to him, tell him your problem with your grades and see what you can work out, but only do this after you tell some one about these Lads.

if you cant, tell anyone about these boys then phone a helpline they are free and may suggest something better.

hope it helps. xx

[xxlizziexx]

ok , first of all your boyfriend, i would break up with him but explain the situation, or, if you really really like him and he is understanding then explain that your grades are lowering and you want to do well. hope that goes well

ok the touching bit, wel i no people that have been in the same situation as you. tell someone, seriously i will help. the boys would pick on you proberly for "dobbing" on them but just keep teling someone about it and they can help you. also if you really dont want to do that, then talk to someone about it, school counsoling?? parents?? my friend has counsoling at school now beacuse she has other problems to so she talks to the counsoler about it and she talks her thought what to do and how to handle it.
it may seem like im taking it far but you want to stop it before it gets even worse. im sure your a loverly person and you dont diserve to have these poeple over you. hope this helps xx

[JORDANESQ]

Hi super. I am a professional youth worker. It is VERY important that you tell a parent or teacher about the touching / violation. These boys are breaking the law at your expense and it is a very serious matter that needs to come to a halt as soon as possible. It is important that you find the courage and strength to take action NOW because there is the possibility that it could get even more serious. I advise you to immediately remove yourself from the school until it is sorted by a parent or teacher. It is perfectly ok for you to get the police involved as these boys are abusive criminals and their actions need to be stopped. My heart goes out to you and I wish you ever success. (please, please, please talk to an adult!)

[Arsenal666]

i suspect this is a joke question after reading the last part. anyone else see this?

[Scullywoo]

Arsenal666 - what do you mean?!  I'm curious now...

[ivehaduremum]

how old are you?

[Le Chat]

Break up with him now!! Follow the advice of the other answers also. As far as your grades go, judging by your spelling, they could do with improving vastly!

[simms]

Why not find a good publisher for this stuff?

[Diablod666]

hm... i think all of you people dont really understand how you can help best. telling a teacher or counsellor about it isn't usually a very realistic answer! you need to talk to a friend about it, not a teacher. telling the teacher is not a realistic answer! people do not want to share that they are being touched up by boys with a teacher. I think that the best option is to get your boyfriend to warn them off. maybe not necessarily in a threatening way, but you could just ask him to tell some of the boys to lay off! thats well out of order touching up someone elses girlfriend! does he see this going on? he must be some kinda p*ssy to not do anything about it. As for your grades... this problem could be sorted out by just explaining to your boyfriend that you dont like him any less, but you think that you two should spend less time together because your grades are suffering and you need to spend more time on them instead. if he says something like "you think grades are more important than me!??!!?" then i would hope its just a spur of the moment thing, but if it's not then you should break up with this arrogant person. im sure he will be very understanding though. good luck