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I'd like to thank you all for your replies and ideas/links, our main problem is that she should not be able to pull them off, at all,
At least, until she gets used to wearing something indoors, then, i'll make full use of the various items that you have come up with. (i've put this post in 'my favourites, so I can come back to it)
One or two of them, it looks like we may be able to adapt.
Info Bank,
The problems with floor coverings we've had, at present, in her room, she has laminated, because whenever we put carpet or rugs, she uses it as a toilet, (ones and twos), Laminate was the only thing that stopped her,
As for the shoes by the door, we've tried that, unfortunately, she'd always pick them up and take them to the cupboard where they normally go, and got quite agitated, although sometimes, in order to get her to learn, it has to be.
Ice.Maiden,
That wouldn't work with our daughter, she's only got (approx) mentally in months, what she has in years, with a couple of other little things thrown in, as well as being (non violent) at the exteme end of the spectrum, but thanks anyway.
Cruella,
Bless you, with all your own problems, you always send her hugs, she's got it.