Big decision to make as andy says needs a lot of thinking about, from my point of view it is the most wonderful yet most worrying thing you can ever do in your life,
This little bundle comes into your life and it is with you hopefully till you die, no matter how old they are you worry for them, you cry for them you feel the pain they feel, you want to protect them from the world, but it doesn't work like that. if only we could do all thses things.
as for the love i still find it hard to take in that as soon as baby is born you feel this amzing love and warmth surround you, no other love like the love we feel for our children. you may think you are selfish but once baby is born you would die for that baby, I will stop now cos I can waffle on all day, the last thing I will say is, if you do have a baby.
apart from love give baby as much time as you can, time is priceless, you don't need to spend a fortune just give time, be happy, go on picnics, walks, play football, go swimming whatever it is, and talk to them , encourage them to do their best, but never pressure them to, I am so glad I did this, take care, Ray