I'm a Director of a finance company, and your attitude and those of people like you infuriate me. You took a car (a depreciating lump of metal) on finance over a predetermined period of time, and due to a change in your circumstances (one which sounds entirely within your control, and certainly doesn't sound like the end of the world), you bleat about the fact that you can't simply hand the car back and walk away?! Open your eyes and accept the responsiblity of your own actions. Ask for a settlement figure, sell the car (with their authority if necessary) but be prepared to pay the shortfall.