The guy at work.....

[angel-cake]

following on from my post last night about dating a guy from work, and not finding myself attracted to him....

I didnt want to discuss it at work so i didnt bring the subject up. I have been quite distant towards him, and he obviously noticed as he has been asking me ALL day what is wrong and if im ok. Seriously, it was getting too much.

I ended up texting him after work and saying that I had things to deal with and he needed to back off (without being nasty).

I know i have probably not approached it properly but he has actually quite annoyed me today!

[cazzz1975]

well its better that he knows the truth now before he starts developing really strong feelings for you, he will get over it.

[Ice.Maiden]

I agree with cazzz. You have to nip these things in the bud, before the guy's admiration gets too much, or you find yourself trying to be friendly but sending out the wrong messages.