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[miss sixty]

recently i had sex with a male for the first time. it was not until afterwards that his friends told me that he had some sort of std/sti where his pubic area went green and around his mouth. i gave him oral sex without a condom. do you think i could have caught this sti/std even if it had "dissappeared"?? if yes what is the name of this sti/std?? please help!!!

[Corkyb]

Never heard of that one,  but I'd suggest you go and get checked out at your Doctors or local STI clinic. They both treat your visit in confidence and you would have peace of mind. 

[brachiopod]

Are you pregnant aswell?

(I was just wondering how else this fits into the 'Parenting' category.)

[andy hughes]

I suspect his friends are winding you up here.There is a serious aspect to this question - it is unwise to have unprotected sex- including oral sex - with someone you don't know very well. Consider that by exhcanging bodily fluids with this person, you are in effect 'having sex' with every sexual contact he has had - this is the primary route of sexually transmitted diseases. As Corkb says, get yourself checked, and make up your mind to have enough respect for yourelf to adopt a responsible attitude to your sexual activity. You have a righ to ask any man you don;t know very well indeed to wear a condom, if he refuses, that automatically disqualifies him from a sexual relationship with you. No respect - no contact. Easy, and much safer.

[kaz35]

Should this be in the 'Parenting' section?

Think you need 'Body & Soul,' miss sixty, as well as a doctor's appointment, although I'd be very surprised if this isn't a wind - up.  Not a very funny one, though......

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[flopsy000]

I think they are winding you up.  See what happens and if you get any symptoms get down the docs asap but I have a hunch you will be fine... I have never heard of such an std anyway.

[flopsy000]

I think they are winding you up.  See what happens and if you get any symptoms get down the docs asap but I have a hunch you will be fine... I have never heard of such an std anyway.