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Different sex drives
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wonder does anyone have a different sex drive to their partner? does it cause any friction?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.Mr mountainboo has always had a high sex drive, even after 10 years. My sex drive is a wee bit lower than his. But as emstown says, it isn't just about sex. We are both very much in love with eachother and he is fine if I ever say 'do you mind if we don't tonight'. My sex drive has definately reduced since I became pregnant, I think it's because I'm neurotic about hurting the baby (stupid I know), but it's just psychological.
sex isn't everything but it is a very important part of a relationship, its what attracted you to your partner in the first place.
i have a very high sex drive whereas my g.f used to but it seems to have declined more and more over the years. if i want sex but she doesn't (often for weeks at a time) then it is very very frustratiing and being rejected also hurts your feelings.
we only ever have sex if i intitiate it and then i feel awful cos its like ive had to pester her into it and shes not really enjoying it.
i put up with it though cos i love her and cant imagine life without her, just have to go and have a five knuckle shuffle to relieve the tension!
i have a very high sex drive whereas my g.f used to but it seems to have declined more and more over the years. if i want sex but she doesn't (often for weeks at a time) then it is very very frustratiing and being rejected also hurts your feelings.
we only ever have sex if i intitiate it and then i feel awful cos its like ive had to pester her into it and shes not really enjoying it.
i put up with it though cos i love her and cant imagine life without her, just have to go and have a five knuckle shuffle to relieve the tension!
My husband and I used to be so sexual toward each other. After I had my son in 2006 he seemed like he was afraid to have sex with me. Then I found out that he had been cheating on me for almost a whole year. Eventhough, he cheated my sex drive has not changed but his has changed. We used to be so insinct, now I feel like a pervert sometimes. He will actually turn me down!