If you need to talk to your mum, then just tell her you need to talk to her, never talk to anybody if you are annoyed because all you say will be angry words and not make sense, write down what you want to say, or at least make notes, but to me, if ever i needed to talk to my mum or dad, I spoke from the heart, say what you feel and how you feel, no good bottling things up, and as dot says "confront" is rather aggresive, just speak in a gentle voice, never get annoyed and the words will flow. Ray