Oh my god that could have been me writing that. I was after a guy for years and although we were seein eachother he would never commit, and it was always one rule for him.... a year and a half ago I had enough and told him that was it and we could never see eachother again. I loved him so much but spent most my time upset over him or things he'd done. I met a lovely bloke and even though I will always love the ex I know it was different love. My new bloke is perfect and cares so much for me and gives me a future to look forward too. I still get texts and got one last week From ex saying that he thinks he missed out on his last chance of happiness with me. Even though this makes me think for a bit, I know deep down he says these things because he is lonely, and karma has got to him, he now cant have me. I also know times change and I can say that your ex wont be the same, it wont be as you were back then at all. Please if you are happy don�t take a chance, the grass isn�t always greener. xx