Would you settle for....

[lil123]

someone who you know will be right for you later down the line OR end it and go for someone is right for fight now?

[lil123]

That should say right now sorry x

[tinkerbell99]

i would end it and go for right now you never know whats round the corner and how do you know that they will be right for you later if there not right for you now xxx

[Mr k]

Go for the one who is right now...

[pusspuss]

ricky haton would go for the fight now one

[raysparx1]

Hi lil, hope you are well, why won't the one who is right for you now,not be right for you later on? do you mean somebody that is exciting right now but not wanting to settle down with, or somebody that is maybe not ok for right now, but will be great to share cocoa with in a few years time?

I am so happy I stuck with the one that said yes to me years ago. xx

[lil123]

Hi Ray
The one I am with now is ok apart from I feel he doesn't show me enough affection and a few nasty things have happened over this past week where all I wanted was someone to hold me really and he wasn't there for me.
Yesterday my daughter lost her baby and he was so busy playing cricket he didn't give a xxxx hole what I was going through.
I think I need someone older with more life experience

[raysparx1]

Hi lil, so sorry to hear that about your daughter, that is so sad, hope she can look forward, but it will take time,

as for the bloke. he definitely is not the right one for you or anybody else, that is so selfish, you deserve far better than that and you are worth much more than that, time for serious thinking, but if he is so uncaring, I would get rid, and wait for that special person who will be beside you through the good and the bad, he is out there lil, in the meantime just spend time with the ones who need you and will always be there for you,

take care and look after the ones you love, Ray xx

[stonemonkey]

Lil, if you feel unloved now and he chooses sport over you needing him, then those feelings of doubt and isolation will build and you'll make yourself miserable. I've been in a relationship with an uncaring man, and it's hard work for little reward. If you have serious doubts, then he isn't the right man for you.

Good wishes to you and your daughter xx