Case 11- My own wife was Christian but converted to Islam. I did not scare her with sword. She liked my character and Muslim life style.
Now your facts � 4 witnesses you are referring has nothing to do with rape. It is to do with adultery. So that people should not blame someone just to get him/her in trouble and because the punishment of adultery is severe in Islam, then the
Accuser has to bring 4 witnesses to prove the
Allegation. If not then the accuser would be flogged. So think about it and you would appreciate the reason behind it.
2 women equal to 1 man only in financial matters. Because women are usually house wives and has no link and knowledge about financial maters. Otherwise even one woman can be a witness. "And those who launch a chargeagainst their spouses, and have (in support) no evidence but their own - their solitary evidence can be received."[Al-Qur�an 24:6]
About all the rest. I would say only one thing that according to you Islam oppresses woman. This is a very common misconception. There is no cure for this apart from saying that all the people who are converting to Islam, over 70% are women. So obviously they are finding something else apart from oppression.
http://www.islamawareness.net/Converts/
http://www.themodernreligion.com/w_main.htm