Embarrassing crushes

[ruby27]

If an Aber had a crush on you, would you be embarrassed, worried or flattered?

When you in the physical world see someone, if you consider them good looking you are flattered, if you consider them unattractive, you think what a cheek for thinking they have a chance?

So here do the same rules apply?

[ruby27]

Bob, of course you can, some of us have already - its like hearing someone on the phone and having a picture in your head of what they look like, plus likeing them for the things they say and admiring their ability to communicate

Clint Eastwood. Hadn't thought of him but that is a look I go for, never will read Clanad's postings in the same way in the future

I always imagine that Buencchio (not spelt properly) is going to be at first glance a bit geeky but then on closer inspection he is sort of John Hurt - intense and wiry.

ps - sorry if any of the victims are being put to the blush

[bobtheturkey]

but how do you know they are not some raving lunatic? as i keep pointing out ted bundy was the most charming intelligent witty man anyone could meet...............

[ruby27]

bob

2 things

1) in a way it doesn't matter - its like a teenage crush on a pop star - its not real its just a bit of fun

2) in the physical world you tend to decide you like someone because of their actions - not acting/behaving like Ted B, but by being kind. However an awful lot is on communication - most of the time its talking to each other, which is either done via speaking, signing or writing. In the physical world you see a smile, feel a hug, give someone a hand, here you see smilies, kisses and peoples genuine desire to be helpful/funny/witty/clever/unhelpul/rude etc etc

[bobtheturkey]

ted was kind and helpful even john wayne gacy dressed up as a clown for kids parties

[Goodsoulette]

I had a cyber crush on an ABer but fortunately he reciprocated the word stalking. There are a few ABers that would frighten me off the site forever if I thought they had a crush on me!

Same rules apply although looks wouldn;t weigh so heavily in the equation!

[China Doll]

I can't wait to tell Octavius about this thread. Like his head needs to get any bigger... Besides, I always had him down as Woody Allen. (Don't think he was too impressed with that).

Is Clannad not a lass? I thought they were.

I fancy Lady Muck, she's a charmer.