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Jock, thank you also for your answer.
All these stupid ***** on here ought to get a life and stop telling me how to live mine!!
At the end of the day I know the person, you do not. I had an extremely bad life as a child and have learnt to live life to the full and enjoy every day as if it is your last!
I am DEFINATELY not condoning my boyfriend's actions, this was last septemeber and was very wrong but at the same time what the guy did to his sister was also very wrong but it doesn't make it alright!
I know the person/people involved and the whole story, I am asking for advice ONLY not your abuse and your personal opinions on what I should do with my life, at the end of the day that is MY decision and I most certainly not a stupid person. I have a degree and a good career and am certainly not taking this lightly nor indeed throwing my life away!
I am very happy actually, the most happy I have been in a long time and I do hope that all of you who have given me abuse have such happy and fullfilled lives as I do!
Now I have good advice from Katie, Chris and Jock and the rest of you, please do yourselves all a favour and get back to your lives unless you are going to give me productive and reasonable adult answers.
Thank you