me and my ex

[gixxer]

we were together for 7 years but split 2 years ago. we have been seeing each other on and off since but now i after a near death experience that i really really love her but she thinks it isn't a good odea we try again. should i leave her alone or try to woo her back

[misundrstood]

just be frifriends and go from there after all it was your experience that changed your line of thinking not hers
most of all respect the woman that goes a long way

[razmataz]

The advice from misundrstood is good. Stay close to this woman and allow the friendship to flourish first. Then see how the two of you go from there.

Having said that, you haven't provided a lot of information re: why she thinks it isn't a good idea. Could you provide a little more insight?

[gixxer]

**** where do i begin?????????
we met in 1981,,,, we fell in love and went from there.....
lasted bout a year or two but then she came to my house one day and i had been taken into care........ 1999 we dated again by july 2006 we had split up havin 2 kids,,,,, we just argued,,,, i slept around she still doesnt know this. guess i just got bored wih ordinary life and thought the grass was greener.... 2 years on i still ain't happy been kinda seein a girl for ages now,,, she's 25,,, really pretty lovely kind honest hard working and believe this i am the onlky man she has slept with. she adores me but i, well, she just doesn't have that certain 'thing',,,,,,,, my ex has just started seeing a guy.... she doen't know but since i came back from hols 2 months ago i ain't slept wi this girl and in fact i split with her last week,,, the day before i found out my ex was seeong another guy. i intended to ask her to try again but now it's too late. i prob sound like a right ****** but i am being brutally honest. i am a great dad we share our 2 kids 4/5... i work so so hard too and pay for them and my ex too. my ex would describe me as prob the nicest guy you could ever meet but i just don't let people love me.

[gixxer]

ps we are both now 34,,, we met first when we were 7 lol

[lungsfriend]

have you tried stalking her?

[gixxer]

lungs friend i would rather stalk u with a cricket bat

[banjobabe]

Hey gixxer :)

The sentance that jumped out in your answer was........


my ex has just started seeing a guy....

I would think long and hard before you try to woo her back. Is it partly the fact that she's just started seeing someone else, would the novelty wear off ?

Bb xx