Virginity

[Bee-bz]

How do you prepare yourself for the first time you have sex?

[jennyjen02]

...supply of at least one condom?

[beso]

Get to know your prospective partner really well so that you understand both your motives for having sex.

[joggerjayne]

Do you mean the first time on any particular day?

[2GS]

wash

[andy-hughes]

Make sure that this is someone with whom you are comfortable in an intimate situation.

Make sure you have plenty of time, and will not be interupted. Make sure you are in a comfortable place - a hotel is nice if you can manage that.

Remember, it's an intimate act, not a competition or a race - no one is going to hand out gold medals if you reach an orgasm, or a wooden spoon if you don't!

The less expectations you bring, the less pressure you will both be under, so take your time and relax. It's not an exam, no-one is marking your technique,l so go with what feels comfortable for you.

Be sensitive to your partner and follow his or her signals, verbal or phycical, and remember, the first time is just that p- the first time, so you can be sure that you will both improvve with practise.

Hope this helps.

[Booldawg]

My best advice would be to lie back and think of Booldawg.

[gucciman]

i find getting an erection helps !

[kujawski]

cross your eyes, then it looks like your shagging/ being shagged by two of the same, a bit like an orgy, should help you reach an orgasm quicker

[Hitler]

lol

[flflflflflfl]

what if they're both foking ugly? time to go to specksavers?

[sam100]

Know what you like...because if you don't then the other person has no chance!

Dont put to much pressure on the situation.


Be comfortable and relaxed and enjoy it.

...and this may sound harsh but don't expect fireworks.

Don't do it for someone elses benefit only do it if you are comfortable to.

[BradPlantpot]

Try a Cleveland Steamer with reverse tea-bagging dismount.

[Panic Button]

Better if her Dad isn't upstairs

(He was when I did it)

[dove]

mine was soooo romantic, I was 16 and had been with the love of my life for 6 months. His parents were out, and we were in his indoor swimming pool ( as we did every monday) then we got in the jaccuzi, and it was just the right time and the right place.......... so stupidly we didnt use protection just the withdrawal method, but hey it was the most romantic night of my life, it wasnt prebooked, it was just right!! We split up about 8 years later, I am nearly 40 now but still love him dearly!
Sorry if I was too explicit x

[Booldawg]

...unfortunately the other 40 bathers using Nantwich Leisure Centre on that Monday night didnt think so.