help!!

[davec886]

My girlfriend/partner/housemate - I'm no longer sure of our relationship - has refused me sex for over 7 years. I can't wait any longer but I don't want to leave her. Is there anywhere I can get some casual sex without paying for it?

[happy_face]

well done for lasting this long!!

Have you never thought why she's refusing you sex? As a female myself, the only reason why I would refuse a partner/husband would be if I didn't fancy him anymore. Unless of course we're talking some kind of medical problem.
Have the two of you spoken openly about it?

[4getmenot]

girlfriend/partner/housemate which one??

[weeal]

You have to discuss it with her, ask why she refuses to have sex with you and carry on as if its normal.

Finding others for casual sex will just bring other problems into it.

[andy-hughes]

Sure - find someone as confused and morally bankrupt as you - female preferably - and they should be up for it.

Job done.

[chockysgirl]

7 years ?

[Booldawg]

Her ass wouldve hit the pavement, shortly followed by her suitcase about 6 years and 51 weeks ago if that were me.

She's obviously with you through convenience, roof over her head, financial security - do you do all the cooking and cleaning too? Its time to kick her into touch and find one who puts out a bit more regularly.

[MiniN]

booldawg, your assuming a LOT.

dave - talk to her about it. is she actually your girlfriend though. I only ask because you class her as 'girlfriend/partner/housemate'.

how would you feel if she was getting some on the side like your suggesting?

[stevegetsbum]

ur a gimp go out round a town called wrexham there are so many slags 4 u there they just get shagged and move on

[BradPlantpot]

Get on the hand pump my moosh!

[sam100]

7 years does sound an awful long time??? Talk to her...like sharpish if she is your girlfreind as that doesnt strike me as a very balanced realationship...either there is a crossed wire in the 'relationship' or you are being taken for a mug.
Sorry i don't mean to sound harsh but a year i could understand...7 is a bit iffy.

[-kaffryn-]

lol at you BradPlantpot.. :L