I see, wonder why we rarely see the 'facts' the other way round though.... and no one can speak for my fella cept himself I suppose. It just seems a shame that when people talk of domestic violence the only picture people invariably see is a the big strong man hitting the weak woman.
They don't seem to conjure up the violent woman giving the guy black eyes and telling him no one will believe him if he says it was her and that she will say he had abused her if he tries.
Doesn't matter when genitalia anyone has, domestic abuse is wrong, makes me shudder to think of it and also makes me feel very lucky I haven't ever personally been involved.