should we go?

[Im a BusyBee]

we were at a bbq at the weekend and i said to 1 friend dunno when we will see you all again and she mentioned another person there was having a bbq soon but i said we had not been invited. I heard her tell that person that i knew about her bbq and had said i hadnt been invited (no one knew i heard) later she then invited me. Hope you can understand what im saying - seems a bit muddled! question is did she just invite me cos she knew i knew about it or was she going to invite me anyway? i feel really awkward about going, so much so i dont if i will - would you go?? I would love to cos a big group of friends i dont manage to catch up with often nowadays will be there.

[Im a BusyBee]

but i will never know if she was actually going to invite me or not will i??

[4getmenot]

No I guess you wont. And even if you ring and ask she's hardly gonna say no you cant come is she if put on the spot. Thats why I just invited the other girl in the end. But I did wonder why she would want to come was blatantly obvious I didnt want to invite her