people....

[angryman2008]

why are people SO difficult? i have a friend who recently had a disagreement with another friend......yet i saw him last week and said 'hi' only to be totally blanked....

what is it with people, does anyone actually like eachother these days?

i had been quite good to him when he had been in tr0uble in the past but whats the use these days, people seem fickle and have selective memories and think the world and everyone else owes them something

[nat_84]

why did he and your other friend fall out?

[y-cymro]

He probably had a lot on his mind - offers from Jeremy Kyle, Trisha...

I Had A Bust-Up With Someone And Now I Don't Know If We Can Be Friends Anymore.

[MiniN]

don't lose heart angryman, why don't you call your friend up and just ask him why he blanked you. perhaps he didnt see you?

you won't know whats going on unless you ask your friend.

[andy-hughes]

One simple fact I hve learned is how pathetically inadequate verbal comunication is.

A famous philospher once said -

"By the time I have finished this sentence, you will have started to misunderstand what I am trying to say ..."

and that's about the size of it.

Your friend may have heard some erroneous input from parties unknown, so the best thing is to talk it over with him.

Yes, talking is often less than useless, but we have to minimise the problems by keeping pure communcation channels open as often and as long as we can, so have a chat with him.

Worst case, he continues blanking you - you move on.

Best, misunderstandings cleared up, frienship moves on, stronger - result!

Call him ....

[Nightfold]

Ask him why he is being like that and state hes gotta get a grip through secure dynamics. If he is still being the way he is then just move on.

[Emmeedask]

Text him a joke, send a funny card, just make him smile.

Letting him know you don't have a problem with him and are still his friend shud bring things round. You don't know whats going on in his head, he might of heard you were on the other persons side and he just needs to see your nutral doesn't he.

Good luck

Em x