f*cking women!!!!!!!!!

[angryman2008]

im at my witts end, met a girl few weeks ago and she was saying how much she fancied me etc, and was saying things like she hopes my intentions are good etc. anyway she was saying lads mess her about and shes sick of itl........anyway its now turned sour as she started to get a bighead and had the gall to say she just wanted sex but didnt think i could leave it at that as id taken it quite seriously......anyway shes now just ignoring me and even called me a loser. what is it with women these days....i thought when i got past 20 they would be more rational, theres a lot of game playing....or is it just im crap?? ive noted if i get rejected it knocks me, yet there are other lads who play the game and can have a few on the go

[sara3]

errrrr.... hiding?? ;o)

[sallybowles]

can I ask, what list?
and why am I not on it?

[sara3]

it's Raggy's Rejection list.

you're probably already on it!

[sallybowles]

Great....thanks.
I didn't want to miss out.
Rejections do not bother me, just get on with life.
:-)

[sara3]

awhh, I quite like him. I just think he is misunderstood.

[sallybowles]

no.....er sorry, can't remember. have I upset you at some time?

[MiniN]

angryman,

i've replied to many of your posts now and you do always seem...well...angry. not only at other people but at yourself. no offence, but no-one in their right mind is going to want to be with someone who is angry and has high expectations.

yes it was wrong that she told you she's sick of lads messing her around and then to say that you were taking things too seriously. but she, like you, is entitled to change her mind.

perhaps you were just a little too full on for her?

try to relax and not expect so much.

[obNOXious]

You'd do well to just calm down and learn to take life as it presents itself to you, instead of trying to make it conform to your view of how it should be.
As you've discovered, women have dangerous opinions of their own, damned nerve I know, but they do:)

In my experience women like men who are quiet, confident, happy with who they are, don't stress unnecessarily, don't domineer and inflict their ideas onto them and don't put unrealistic expectations of getting married and having kids on them after the first five minutes.

Life is for enjoying and having fun, and when the time is right, because you've met the right person, all the depth of feeling in the world will flow between the two of you like electricity and you'll know that this is the person to spend the rest of your life with.

Until then, just try to relax, not be so bl00dy enraged with everything ( that puts women off quicker than anything and rightly so) and just enjoy yourself without judging either yourself or those around you too harshly.

[sara3]

Raggy.. all seeing, all knowing ;o)

[Greedyfly]

Maybe you do have deeper feelings than she does or that shes jus not the nice a person?

[Eve]

Having seen a number of your other posts you seem to thing so intensely (and negatively) about everything.

Why not convert that intensity into making yourself happy rather than overthinking everything to do with other people.

You can't change people, all you can do is change the way that you react to them, don't get so wound up.

You never know, it may have a positive effect on your love life too. If you're so busy concentrating on making your life happy and fulfilled then it will more than likely sneak up on you when you are least expecting it.