Bro update

[4getmenot]

So today I just get an e-mail saying 'you going to quiz tonight?' Well I know I said he should just get over it but sometimes it annoys me how people can be so nasty and then not apologise or pretend they didnt hurt that person.

[redcrx]

do you want the answers to the picture quiz??

wink wink

[4getmenot]

ha ha that would be funny, but I;m no cheat. Just give me half of them. lol

[MiniN]

thats family for you 4get. you have to forgive them for the minor stuff even if thet still act ike an @rse!

[4getmenot]

Dont think so legend. But miniN how many times do you forgive them and ignore it without being treated like poo

[karmgirl]

Tell him exactly how you feel and tell him to grow up 4get

[karmgirl]

Perhaps it willl cause an argument but sounds like you need to get a lot off your chest so may as well clear the air.

[4getmenot]

if only you knew him, if I was to tell him how he annoys me sometimes he would blow his top and its not worth it really. I just wish he would apologise sometimes. He must know he's done wrong.

[MiniN]

can't you instigate a heart-2-heart with him just you and him alone, maybe a nice meal too?

tell him how you feel and that because he lives in the US you want to enjoy the times you get to spend with him.

your right, you can't let him treat you like poo, but he is your brother and you have to try your hardest to make sure you have a better relationship with him. life is too short, hun, even if he is a tw1t

[karmgirl]

mmm I kinda know what you mean, my brother can be the same sometimes. Men they are all the same they never apologise?

[monkeyeyes]

May I ask why it is not worth it ?
Your brother is both upsetting you now and holding over you the threat (because he knows you know that that is how he reacts) that he will 'blow his top' when told a few home truths. He knows that he has put you in a corner where you have to put up with his bad behaviour because he believes that you won't challenge him for fear of his reaction.

Why don't you surprise him and just tell him how he has hurt you ? And use a few expletives when you do.............:o)

[4getmenot]

I have told him yesterday but wont get into an argument, things I;ve been through lately I realise there are more imprtant things in life. I told him to stop taking things out on me and said to come round lastnight and talk like adults but he didnt and now today its as if nothing happened.

[4getmenot]

well yes it is resolved that wasnt the point I just wonder why so many people just cant apologise when they have been nasty. Guess these people are just stubborn or immature

[4getmenot]

Y? you arent related are you?, oh god help me lol