What makes you happy in a Relationship?

[WhiteBear]

im not talking about How you make yor partner happy, im talking about what makes you happy in a relationship?

some do and give what ever their partner wants, but not thinking about themselfs? isnt relationship suppose to share everything together? as in make each other happy?

or am i just talking jibberish?? :P

[lil75]

Hiya Whitebear...how are you?

Quality time together makes me happy. x

[joggerjayne]

Just having a relationship would be a start.

[joggerjayne]

Oh, I forgot my obligatory "appropriate" white bear picture ... polar bears being happy in their relationship ...

http://saveapolarbear.org/img/Polar_Bears_Hug. jpg

[WhiteBear]

hi Lil75, i feel much better thanks!!
you are right quality time together is the bestest. i mean i wouldnt share a computer to go on AB or any other sites, in fact i dont think i would be on the internet apart from job hunting and replying to emails etc lol.

Hello Jayne, yeah that is true aswell, having a relationship would be a start, but it has to be the right one!! it cant be just anyone..... :) xxxx

[WhiteBear]

this is for you jayne

http://www.flickr.com/photos/hrkittredge/12543 07677/


xxxxxxxxx

[joggerjayne]

Maybe you're right WhiteBear. It can't be just anyone. I might change my lonely hearts ad in The Argus. Currently ...

F seeks M. Will consider anyone.

But it was cheap!!

[joggerjayne]

The smooching bears are lovely. x

[WhiteBear]

I.A.P
wow that is amazing!! :) 34 years being together is really great. keep it up!! xxxxxxxx

when im in a relationship i often feel very concious that its not going to work out, and most of the time my concious is always right ! lol x maybe im just being too fussy :P that trying to look for 'the one' or 'mr right' or 'mr perfect'? but dont think thers such thing...??? :P x

[Petal~flower]

If you are happy with yourself, then its a good start... But its easy to fall into the habit of doing what makes the other person happy..

[Eve]

Definitely laughing and being able to be completely yourself with someone and someone you can let go and be silly with.

[~max~]

I haven't been in one for so long, I think they might have changed it! :O(

[Jugglering]

I have heard of this strange new word *relationshi......*... nope, can't even spell it ! Can anyone explain what it means and how it can be achieved - preferably in 10 easy steps... :)

[EngTeach]

I'm with Jane and Juggerling: What is a relationship and where can I get one?

[~max~]

See? I'm invisible even on here! :O(

[ChuckFickens]

LOL, no your not...

Hello max:)

[~max~]

lol! Thanks Chuck! I was referring to EngTeach not mentioning me in the "no relationship for ages" comment...


Maybe that was a good thing??? lol

[WhiteBear]

thank yiou for all your answers.
petal, you are damn right there. but how do you stop that silly habit hu? :P


Hi Jenna, i dated a guy a few times in Jan-March last year and it was exactly like what you mentioned. we did silly things, and had alot of giggles, it was fun. unfortunatley after couple months it didnt work out. i think its cos we werent taking the relationship seriously enough! and tbh i didnt really felt we were in a relationship, at least it was mutal depart. i still miss him though. :( neverminnd :) x hes given me some happy memories x

Jugglering and EngTeach.... i wish i knew :) xx

Hello Max :) **waves**
xx