confused

[yannie519]

i am really sad , my boyfriend who live sin the US is now telling me to find someone who is better than him..because he knows i can be a great wife and a great lover, he really loves me and all but he said that there is something inside him that won't allow it to happen ( being together and live happily) because of his past ( he was treated negatively by his friends) and now he doesnt like anyone get close to him because he will think that these people are taking advantage of him...I love him so much and i don't know how to move on with my life...please anybody can give advice..thank you

[Ethel]

I take it he is in the US and you are not.

Don't wish to be harsh, but 'you're too good for me' is the oldest way to say 'you're dumped' there is.

He probably has another girlfriend and is trying to let you down gently.

The way to move on is to keep going - get out and about and enjoy life the best you can.

[Sgt.Rock]

Agree with Ethel, looks like he doesn't want you anymore, sorry.

[Sgt.Rock]

Don't try leg end, he prefers the lads.

[cazzz1975]

maintaining such a distant relationship is bound to be imossible, I think ethel is right

[cazzz1975]

*impossible

[Sgt.Rock]

Looser? Bit like your tongue, that's why you are so unpopular.

[D143237G]

Be very selective of the advice you receive here. A lot of it will be good and genuine. Unfortunately there are a lot of idiots who use this site as well.

All you have to do is go into Chatterbank.

I have never met so many anal retentive, friendless, think they know it all geeks than in there.

Avoid like the plague anyone whose name starts as Legend. They are probably still at school or living with their mum.

[Velvetee]

How come you don't live in same country Yannie and how often do you see him? But as others have said, it sounds like a case of the "It's not you, it's me" excuse. He probably has met someone else or just doesn't want a relationship with anyone.

[yannie519]

I am from the philippines and he is in the US we met twice in person and after we spend the days together, he decided to let me move on

[Whickerman]

you need to move on and forget this guy - like it or not (guessing 'not') he's dropped you, and tried to make it easy on you.

You need to find someone who'll love you and want to be with you - it's not this guy, no matter how much you want it.

Also - your other question relates to internet dating. If this is how you met this fella then you're possibly a bit naive - really don't want to be cruel here but have you thought that maybe he's married...?

[auchinairn]

dump him and marry me lol

[Paul22118]

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