Oh, I obviously missed the first two, that's why I haven't a clue what princejj is on about!
Look, if you have a genuine problem that you need advise with, you need to put ALL the info on ONE posting in the SAME section.
We are not mind readers, I didn't know you have posted elsewhere already and quite frankly, I can't be bothered to search for the other two posts to find out what you are having a problem with.