second thoughts on wedding in 3 weeks

[scoobynicki]

i am having 2nd thoughts about getting married, i am not sure if its because everything is going wrong or just all in general. this would be my 2nd if it goes ahead you would think i would of learnt 1st time

[cazzz1975]

Im sure its normal to have second thoughts especially if you are going through it again, has anything changed recently? or is it just the general melee and complications of organsing the day itself?

[lozzylou]

im sorry you are feeling this way. i expect there is alot to be sorted out and alot going on at the moment. if this is the reason why you are feeling like this, then just remember it will all calm down. if your feelings are towards your partner then you need to speak up now. like you said you have been married before, dont jump into it if you are not sure it is what you want. good luck x

[lil75]

Its a big commitment to make and the fact that you are feeling this way suggests to me that you are taking it very seriously...which is good! My mum said she had doubts and so did my dad, they have been married for over 25 years and are still very happy! Ive never even been married and im in my early thirties, wished it was me lol!

Good luck with the wedding x

[scoobynicki]

thank you all very much for your responses,i guess its just pre wedding nerves, never had it the 1st time so maybe its a good sign lol x