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need help being assertive
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i need to confront a friend about a bouncing cheque.i think i am too nice as i dont want to come across as agressive or accusing but i need some answers.ideally i would say where the hells my money but that wouldnt help.basically what i wanna say is the cheque bounced so when will i get my money and did you knowit would bounce.i dont want to threaten legal action til i have had a civilised convo.i quite like the person so wanna be reasonable.
Can anyone tell me how to be assertive and get answers especially if the person is evasive?
sorry for the essay
all answers appreciated
i need to confront a friend about a bouncing cheque.i think i am too nice as i dont want to come across as agressive or accusing but i need some answers.ideally i would say where the hells my money but that wouldnt help.basically what i wanna say is the cheque bounced so when will i get my money and did you knowit would bounce.i dont want to threaten legal action til i have had a civilised convo.i quite like the person so wanna be reasonable.
Can anyone tell me how to be assertive and get answers especially if the person is evasive?
sorry for the essay
all answers appreciated
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.i did call round today but no answer.just had a text saying will c u 2moro.so when i c them i will confront and do my best to be assertive.ceejn i think your right the person knows i am right and maybe thinks i am naive.i dont think the person is bad maybe just a chancer.i will have a good talk to them to try and sort it as i dont wanna go through small claims court unless i really have to.thanx again for all advice :-D