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Thanks Cruella, that means a lot, your magic.
I'll certainly give her a hug from you, with pleasure.
At the present though, we'er having a lot of trouble with the Social Services, and now have our MP involved,
The reason i've not been on so much, a combination of things, Dia is a lot more active than she was, i've gone back to playing league Table Tennis, (needed to get out), and coupled with work, doesn't give ne too much time.
End of November is the time, our Anniverary is the 30th, so we'er going to the Ritz on the 29th, and on the 30th, before coming home in the evening, something special in London during the day.
I'll post to say how it all went.
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My wife just read your post, she says thanks, and sends you her best wishes.