Relationship Problems

[keirah]

How do I find out if my partner is being unfaithful? We have been together for 7 years and he is often working very long hours and his mobile is switched off? 

[pimlico]

1.Ask him

2. Check his credit card bills

3. Does he make a special effort if he goes out without you?

[hugoboss]

I've found in a previous relationship:
- if he gets angry when you confront him
- if he won't let you look at his mobile phone AT ALL
- less interest in nookie
- more interest in the way he looks

i think really though, you will KNOW if he is cheating on you - deep down.

[kick3m0n]

agree with both postings.   Ask him...if you've been together 7 years you will know from his reaction if he's lying or not. 

[magicdice]

if you're feeling ruthless, joke about it and watch his reaction.

[Casey]

Apart from him working long hours and his mobile being turned off, has anything else been different? I presume you live together?

[Scarlett]

I think it is quite rude for him to have his mobile off when you might need to contact him. Ask him if he could put it on silent/vibrate, so at least he will be able to see if you call.

[Englishbird]

Agree with all of the above, def go for the mobile though - if he gets cross if you so much as pick it up, huge tell tale sign. good luck hon xx

[Le Chat]

Ask him if you can look at his mobile phone messages and his e mail. If he objects, quote this.. "people with nothing to hide, hide nothing!"

[Casey]

How have you gone on keirah?

[undercovers]

if my partner said soemthing like that i'd seriously question my relationship with her - if your happy in your relationship then be happy and don't try to sabotage it, if your not happy don't look for excuses just (a) change it or (b) leave. simple