i would say i disagree with 'take over', as hongkong belongs to china from history, but i do aware we grown up under different education, so we believe what we have learnt:) so thats why me and my taiwan friends very rare talk about history and politics...but i do understand lots people dont want to change.
i wont blame you for not speaking cantonese, few of my chinese friends who got merried here, all struggling to teach thier babe chinese, but there no language environment here... have u heard of that nickname, BBC?-british born chinese :P
i love that sticky rice stuff, but hard to buy, i dont know how to make either.i never remember those traditional festivals dates either, usually my family or friends remind me by phone, but when there is no family around, there is no much sense for me to celebrate them, only cause homesick maybe...